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Scoliosis

Spinal problems are on the rise globally, due to the prevailing lifestyle of people. Lifestyles characterized by improper diet and lack of exercise lead to weak bones that in turn contribute to Scoliosis.

Scoliosis is a common spinal disease that can occur both in children and adults. Abnormalities, such as uneven shoulders or waist, raised hip, and leaning of the body, should be taken as signs of Scoliosis. These signs call for immediate medical attention. Doctors use X-rays, CT scans, spinal radiographs, MRIs, or spinal bone scans to confirm the disease.

Scoliosis in children may be noticed by a parent, teacher, or doctor. Usually, schools conduct medical examinations to detect this problem early, in children. Research indicates that a history of Scoliosis in the family increases the probability of a child developing the disease. It also shows that girls are more likely to develop the disease than boys.

Scoliosis in adults is generally the continuation of a disease that was ignored or not diagnosed during childhood. This spinal problem is likely to have increased with age.

Contrary to popular notions, Scoliosis is not always painful, so if there is pain along with spinal abnormalities, the patient should also be examined for problems like tumors or hernia.

Although some patients claim to have been benefited from exercises or muscle stimulation, doctors in general do not think that Scoliosis can be rectified through these measures.

Observation, orthopedic braces, or surgery is used to treat the disease. The patient’s age, family medical history, and degree of spinal curve is taken into account by doctors, in deciding upon the course of treatment. Observation is used when a child has a minor form of the disease and has completed growth. The child is observed for several years to confirm that the problem is not worsening with age. Orthopedic braces are used in less severe cases and in the early stages of the disease, while surgery becomes essential in more serious cases.

In conclusion, Scoliosis can be avoided to a large extent by adopting a healthy lifestyle. Parents, teachers, and doctors should keep a sharp lookout for its signs in children because the condition, if ignored or undiagnosed in childhood, may require surgery in adulthood.

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The P’s and Q’s of Public Speaking -

The P’s and Q’s of Public Speaking – 10 Steps to a successful
presentation

by Alan Fairweather

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Avoid the pain

Which would you prefer – root canal dental surgery without an
anaesthetic or a bit of public speaking? According to the people
who research these things, most of us would prefer the former.
Public speaking is still one of our greatest fears and it turns
grown men and women into nervous wrecks. The mere thought of it
turns our tongue to cotton wool, causes our internal plumbing to
act up and our kneecaps to start knocking lumps out of each
other. The problem is that Public Speaking catches up with many
of us at some time both in our business and personal life.
You’re asked to do a short talk at Fred’s “leaving do”. The
organisers of your business club want fifteen minutes on why you
make “kafuffle” valves. A potential client wants a presentation
on why they should give you the contract. Of course there’s
always the confident people who think “I’m real good at this,
lead me to the podium.” The only thing is that some of these
people could bore your socks off and do more for insomniacs than
the strongest sleeping pills. Maybe you’ll be lucky enough to be
sent on a Public Speaking course by your enlightened employer.
But more likely, when asked to make a presentation you’ll get
hold of a book on speaking, start writing the speech and lose
sleep until the event. Well, there’s no need for all of this
because help is at hand. All you need to remember are your P’s
and Q’s. Let’s start with the P’s

Preparation When you sit down to write what you’re going to say,
bear in mind who you’ll be speaking to. Will they understand
what you’re talking about; will they understand the technical
stuff and the jargon? If in doubt remember the old saying “Keep
It Simple Stupid”. To quote Aristotle – “Think as the wise men
do, but speak as the common man”. Make sure that what you say
has a beginning, a middle and an end. Think of some anecdotes
that help reinforce your story. People think visually so paint
verbal pictures for your audience. And always remember, people
want to know what’s in it for them – so make sure you tell them!

Place Have a look at the venue before the event if you can. It’s
not always possible, however, even if you get there half an hour
before, you can check out where you’ll be speaking. Stand at the
point where you will deliver from, imagine where the audience
will be and check that they can see and hear you. You may even
wish to place a glass of water where you’ll be able to find it.
Personal Preparation Before any speaking event, think about what
you are going to wear; when in doubt dress up rather than down.
You can always take things off for a more casual look. Men could
remove their jacket and their tie. Women could remove items of
jewellery. Part of your personal preparation should include some
mouth and breathing exercises. Practise saying some tongue
twisters to give your speaking muscles a good work out. Take a
deep breath and expand your diaphragm. Then breathe out,
counting at the same time, try and get up to fifty and not pass
out. As part of your personal preparation, write your own
introduction. Write out exactly what you want someone to say
about you, large font, double-spaced and ask the person
introducing you to read it. Believe me they won’t object and
will probably be pleased and impressed.

Poise and Posture Whenever you’re called to speak, stand up or
walk to the front quickly and purposefully. Pull yourself up to
your full height, stand tall and look like you own the place.
Before you start to speak, pause, look round your audience and
smile. You may even have to wait until the applause dies down.
Remember, you want the audience to like you, so look likeable.
Practise this in front of a mirror or your family; I’ve heard
that children make pretty good critics.

Pretend I’m suggesting you pretend you’re not nervous because no
doubt you will be. Nervousness is vital for speaking in public,
it boosts your adrenaline, which makes your mind sharper and
gives you energy. It also has the slight side effect of making
you lighter through loss of body waste materials. The trick is
to keep your nerves to yourself. On no account tell your
audience your nervous, you’ll only scare the living daylights
out of them if they think you’re going to faint. Some of the
tricks for dealing with nerves are: Get lots of oxygen into your
system, run on the spot and wave your arms about like a lunatic.
It burns off the stress chemicals. Speak to members of your
audience as they come in or at some time before you stand up.
That tricks your brain into thinking you’re talking to some
friends. Have a glass of water handy for that dry mouth. Stick
cotton wool on your kneecaps so people won’t hear them knocking.
One word of warning – do not drink alcohol. It might give you
Dutch courage but your audience will end up thinking you’re
speaking Dutch.

The Presentation This is it, the big moment when you tell your
audience what a clever person you are and have them leap to
their feet in thunderous applause. Okay, let’s step back a bit -
if you want their applause then you’re going to have to work for
it. Right from the start your delivery needs to grab their
attention. Don’t start by saying – “Good morning, my name is
Fred Bloggs and I’m from Bloggs and Company.” Even if your name
is Bloggs, it’s a dead boring way to start a presentation. Far
better to start with some interesting facts or an anecdote that
is relevant to your presentation. Look at the audience as
individuals; I appreciate that this can be difficult when some
of them are downright ugly. However it grabs their attention if
they think you’re talking to them individually. Talk louder than
you would normally do, it keeps the people in the front row
awake and makes sure those at the back get the message. Funnily
enough, it’s also good for your nerves.

PowerPoint And for those of you who haven’t heard of it, it’s a
software programme that’s used to design stunning graphics and
text for projection onto a screen. As a professional speaker,
I’m not that struck on PowerPoint. I feel that too many speakers
rely on it and it takes over the presentation. After all, you’re
the important factor here. If an audience is going to accept
what you say then they need to see the whites of your eyes.
There needs to be a big focus on you, not on the technology. Use
PowerPoint if you want but keep it to a minimum and make sure
you’re not just the person pushing the buttons. Why not get a
bit clever at using the faithful old Flip Chart, lots of
professionals do.

Passion This is what stops the audience in their tracks. This is
what makes them want to employ you; to accept what you’re
proposing and make them want you to marry their son or daughter.
Couple this with some energy, enthusiasm and emotion and you
have the makings of a great public speaker. Just think of our
old friend Adolph Hitler, boy could he move an audience to
action. It’s just too bad he was selling something that wasn’t
to everyone’s liking. Give your presentation a bit of oomph and
don’t start telling me – “I’m not that kind of person.” There’s
no need to go over the top but you’re doing a presentation to
move people to action, not having a cosy little chat in your
front room.

That’s the P’s finished with so let’s look at the Q’s.

Questions Decide when you’re going to take them and tell people
at the start. In a short speech it’s best to take questions at
the end. If you take them as you go then you may get waylaid and
your timing will get knocked out. Never – never – never finish
with questions; far better to ask for questions five or ten
minutes before the end. Deal with the questions and then
summarise for a strong finish. Too many presentations finish on
questions and the whole thing goes a bit flat. When you’re asked
a question, repeat it to the whole audience and thank the
questioner. It keeps everyone involved, it gives you time to
think and it makes you look so clever and in control.

Quit Quit when you’re ahead. Stick to the agreed time; if you’re
asked to speak for twenty minutes, speak for nineteen and the
audience will love you for it. Remember, quality is not
quantity. One of the most famous speeches ever – “The Gettysburg
Address”, by President Lincoln, was just over two minutes long.
Right, that’s my cue to quit when I’m ahead. Public Speaking
will never be easy for most of us but we can all do it a whole
lot better.

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Benefits Of Padangusthasana

This is one of the basic yoga asanas which we learn initially
while learning yoga. All the yoga poses help in improving your
flexibility which becomes very useful in our daily life. The
asana is also known as head to foot pose. Your desire to
regulate your blood pressure can be done by this asana. The
pressure on your head and the stretching of the muscles relaxes
your brain, making you work out things more easily and calmly.
The stretching and pulling tones your body and relaxes you by
making you feel at ease. The bending helps your abdominal organs
as it massages the liver and spleen making it useful to the
optimum level.

If done properly this asana would benefit not only body but
would teach you be calm and patient. It has to be done slowly
and not in a haste, if you want to receive its full benefits.
The tiring muscles would be elevated and rejuvenated by this
pose. The stretching of the muscles helps your hips, thighs,
hamstrings, groin and calves. When these muscles are stretched
they make your body more agile and fit. It helps to strengthen
the other muscles which would help in recuperating your tired
body. The less stress you give to your important organs it would
work in a better fashion and helping your health.

With the improper diet, many of us suffer from gastric and
indigestion problems. As we do not take care of our health and
does not even look at the warning signs our body sends to us.
This exercise helps in removing the bloating feeling caused by
the indigestion and gastric troubles. It stretches most parts of
your body like back, spine and legs which also plays a major
role at the time of conception. Your knees are strengthened; the
pressure helps in reduction of flat foot. Some other benefits
are in strengthening your prostrate gland, reduction in blood
pressure, helps in removing your backache, less menstrual
discomfort is also provided by this asana.

Why Our Political Leaders Should Embrace the Fair Tax Plan

The Fair Tax Plan (HR.25/S.25) has been out for well over a year now and yet there are still many people who have never even heard of it. One would think that a plan as bold and beneficial as this would be sounded from one coast to the next. Yet that is not the case. As a point of fact there are many liberal political leaders who continually ridicule the Fair Tax Plan whenever it is mentioned. They’re acting under the misguided belief that this wonderful plan favors the “rich”. That is the farthest from the truth as one can come.

The sad fact is that if any of these doomsayers would take the time to actually read the entire plan then they would quickly recognize it for what it isthe greatest social welfare program of all time. This belief Fair Tax proponents share is held because HR.25/S.25 will do more for the “lower income” wage earners in the U.S.A. than any other liberal program(s) in existence today.

You see, all consumers will receive an annualized rebate (in 12 equal monthly installments) on necessary living expenditures up to the poverty level. The size of the monthly rebate will be determined by the government’s published poverty level for a particular household size, multiplied by the tax rate. What this means is that for each person the monthly rebate will be increased in order to pay for the entire household costs for the basic necessities of life. This monthly rebate is given to all citizens regardless of age, sex, race, or income level.

This is how the Fair Tax would have worked in the year 2000. An individual would have received 100% of their pay check. That is if they earned $250 per week they would have taken home $250 per week. Plus, the individual would also receive a monthly check of $160 each month to help pay for their basic necessities of life.

That’s a tax-free income and another $40 a week for your own benefit. The best part of all is what the Fair Tax Plan will do for families. Back in the year 2000 a family of four would have received an additional $431 rebate per month for their livelihood. That payment will happen each and every month until the children become adults. When one considers all of the added values with the Fair Tax in buying used items like cars and homes tax free; there is no better way of helping others to live the American dream.

Is that not what we all want in these United States? Is it not the entire Democratic doctrine to bring equality among the masses? So then why do your democratic leaders refuse to back HR-25/S-25 and all that it will do for America? These are the questions that you must demand of all of your representatives to answerdemocrats and republicans alike.

The above are just a few of many more questions to be asked and I will address them all in following articles. Until then you can download and read the entire 40 page Fair Tax Plan brochure at the Fair Tax Volunteer website. While you’re there you will also find tons of stuff and highly important political information on how we can all persuade our representatives into enacting the FairTax Plan. Of course you can also join the tax revolution while you are there.

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Seven Tips For A Successful Internet Marketing Campaign

Often there can seem to be very little difference between two marketing campaigns. However the difference between average marketing and profitable marketing is immense. Here are my 7 tips for ensuring success from your marketing campaign.

Promote to the right audience.

If your campaign is to succeed it must be aimed at the right people. That is people that are willing and able to respond. In other words they have a need/want for your product/service and the money and authority to buy it. You need to know exactly who you are after and make sure the promotional medium you use is correct. So if you’re selling something to Accountants then you need a list of Accountants to make your offer to. Makes sense right.

Minimize risk for the customer.

A potential customer will not buy from you if they believe the risk of doing so outweighs the return they will get. Or if they are unsure that you will deliver what you have promised. So ask yourself what can you do to let the customer know that the risk is firmly stacked on your side and they really have nothing to lose? Answer this question and do it to maximise results from your campaign.

Set up a follow-up system.

Rarely will you make a sale the first time you come into contact with a potential customer. Stats show you may need up to 7 contacts before they buy. So you must have a follow-up system in place for your campaign. Get their email address and permission to stay in touch and make sure you do. Follow-up with useful information for them and you will increase your sales.

Make an irresistible offer.
You want people to buy right? To make sure they do your offer has to be great, in fact it should be irresistible. As a guide it should sound almost too good to be true but not too good, people are sceptical. More than likely each customer you get will buy again from you in the future so make their first purchase a small step and stack the deal in their favour. For example ‘get your first bag of Jim’s Choice Coffee for just $1 (normally $8.50) if you buy today’.

Know the lifetime value of a customer.

Acquiring a customer can seem expensive but it’s not if you consider what a customer is worth over their lifetime with your business. Let’s say Jim’s Choice Coffee keeps a customer for 3 years and the customer buys one bag of coffee a month from him. That’s 36 months times $8.50 a bag – $306 over their lifetime with his business. See how it makes sense for him to offer a bag for $1 to start that $306 relationship.

Track your progress.

You have to know the numbers on your campaign. How many enquiries? How many sales? What was the value of each sale? Did you make a profit on the campaign? Will you make a profit over the lifetime of the customers? You need this information to know whether the campaign was successful. Also if it’s a long term campaign these figures can tell you if you need to make changes along the way.

Analyse and repeat or improve.

Once you have your figures you must analyse the campaign. If it’s profitable you should keep running it. If it’s not you need to find out why. Was it the offer? Was there too much risk for the customer? Was the advertising medium wrong? Didn’t you follow-up properly? What went wrong and how can you fix it to make the campaign work. Make changes and try again. Keep trying till you find the winning formula. Marketing is trial and error but making sure you analyse and learn as you go.

So what’s your next marketing campaign going to be? Apply these 7 tips and reap the rewards. Good luck.

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Insider Guides to IRS Audits!

Ever wish that, as a business owner, you knew exactly what would raise “red flags”
at
the IRS? Or how to make an IRS audit go as smoothly and painlessly as possible?

If you’re in the right type of business, you can get that information, directly from
the IRS!

Traditionally, IRS examiners have been responsible for auditing many types of
businesses. An examiner might audit a grocery store one week and a construction
company the next. A lot of the examiner’s time was spent learning about the
business.

To improve efficiency, the IRS launched the Market Segment Specialization Program
(MSSP). Examiners now focus on specific types of businesses. To help the
examiners
understand each type of business, the agency has developed training guides,
called “Audit Techniques Guides.” The guides explain the standard practices for the
business, and tell the examiners exactly where to look for potential problems. (For
example, auto repair shops sometimes don’t report the parts they have in stock as
inventory.)

The IRS has developed Audit Techniques Guides for dozens of business types,
ranging
from pizza shops to major league sports franchises. In addition, there are guides
that deal with specific business practices, such as executive compensation,
shareholder loans, or stock based compensation.

You can download the guides
directly from the IRS website. There are other sites that distribute the ATGs as well,
and some of them seem to have guides, perhaps a little out of date, that don’t
appear on the IRS website. Simply search the web for IRS Audit Techniques Guides
to find a list!


Bob Nicholson / WYGK Consulting provides business, technology and strategic
consulting for small businesses, internet start-ups and entrepreneurs.

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Ski New England Mountains and Ski Resorts in Vermont, New Hampshire, Massachusetts and Maine for 1 L

Smart Destinations, creators of the all-inclusive Go Card
attraction products have launched the New England skiing and
snowboard product, the Go Ski Card. The Go Ski Card includes ski
tickets and full day pre-paid ski lift passes to 14 ski area
resorts in Massachusetts, Vermont, New Hampshire and Maine. Go
Ski Card New England can be purchased online by visiting
www.GoSkiCard.com .

Go Ski Card New England includes ski lift tickets 14 Mountains
in New England ski area. Vermont ski area resorts include:
Ascutney Mountain Resort, Bolton Valley Resort, Jay Peak Resort,
Mad River Glen. New Hampshire ski area resorts include: Attitash
Mountain Resort, Bretton Woods Mountain Resort, Gunstock
Mountain Resort, Pats Peak Ski Area, Ragged Mountain Resort.
Massachusetts ski area resorts include: Wachusett Mountain Ski
Area, Ski Butternut – The Berkshires Family Mountain, Blue Hills
Ski Area. Maine ski resorts include: Shawnee Peak Ski Area and
Saddleback Maine. There are many additional savings beyond the
pre-paid lift tickets. Blue Hills Ski Area, for example,
includes free lessons and rentals. Ascutney, Attitash, Bolton
Valley, Jay Peak and the Mount Washington Resort at Bretton
Woods offer discounts on lodging.

Go Ski Card is available in 1, 2, 3, 5, and 7-day increments for
use in any combination of days between December 15, 2005 and
April 15, 2006. Each Go Ski Card is valid for one person per
mountain per day and a Card can be used multiple days at one
mountain or at any mix of mountains over the winter season.
Pricing for the Go Ski Card varies depending on the number of
days purchased. Child (age 5 through 12), Junior (age 13 through
17) and Adult (18+) Go Ski Cards are available. Corporate
discounts – based on bulk order quantities – are available to
organizations to pass along to employees or members. All Go Ski
Cards come with a free, full-color ski guidebook with
descriptions of the participating New England ski area
mountains, plus ski trail maps, ski mountain statistics, ratings
of slope difficulty, and a listing of all special offers.

“Skiers and riders understand the value of this product
immediately,” notes Cecilia Dahl, president of Smart
Destinations. “A full-day lift ticket at these great mountains -
at these prices — is exciting, and the values only get better
the more you ski. There are no blackout dates, and prices on
children’s cards make the Go Ski Card ideal for families and
large groups, as well.”

Go Ski Card can be in Boston at the Go Boston Card Visitor
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Humor for Women – Mom’s Fool-Proof Spaghetti Sauce

1) Assemble all the ingredients: 2 large cans tomato paste, 1 fresh clove garlic, 2 medium sized onions, 2 teaspoons oil, 1 small sprig of parsley, 1 teaspoon oregano, 1 teaspoon basil, cup red wine.

2) Look for large pot with lid.

3) Realize that pot has been used as a temporary house for the hamster while its cage was being cleaned.

4) Find a medium pot with lid.

5) Look for garlic press.

6) Look for a sharp knife.

7) Try to chop the onions.

8) Look for a really sharp knife – the one that’s hidden way in the back of the drawer so nobody cuts themselves on it.

9) Cut finger.

10) Stop the bleeding with a bright pink and green adhesive strip decorated with pictures of circus animals.

11) Cut the onions into bite-sized pieces and place in medium sized saucepan with 2 teaspoons of oil.

12) Empty out the junk drawer on the kitchen table to find the garlic press.

13) Chop the parsley.

14) Look in the kid’s toy chest to find the garlic press.

15) Find the garlic press and scrape the play clay out of it.
16) Smell smoke.

17) Realize that you’ve forgotten the onions on the stove.

18) Frantically wave a magazine at the smoke detector before the smoke alarm goes off.

19) Take two aspirin after smoke detector does go off.

20) Throw out burnt onions.

21) Find a jar of spaghetti sauce in the back of the cupboard and put it in the pot.

22) Add the parsley, 1 teaspoon oregano and 1 teaspoon basil to the pot.

23) Heat until bubbling.

24) Drink the wine.

This article comes with reprint rights providing no changes are made and the resource box below accompanies it.

Laura Browne is the author of a serious but practical & easy-to-use book for women, Why Can’t You Communicate Like Me? How Smart Women Get Results At Work available at Barnes & Noble online, http://www.bn.com Laura offers free teleconferences on How To Deal With Difficult People At Work. For more information, email her at laura4b@earthlink.net or go to http://www.inyourfaceink.com

When Laura isn’t writing, she helps women be more successful through WOMEN Unlimited, a nationally recognized resource for cultivating leadership excellence, http://www.women-unlimited.com

(This article was originally printed in Cranberry Magazine.)

Are You Ever Worried That Your Husband Is Having An Affair?

As our marriage relationship evolves through time, there may be
a few bumps in the road that lead us to question whether or not
our husband is having an affair. Here are some tips to help safe
guard your relationship.

Emotional Intimacy Keeps A Marriage Strong

There may be a time when you feel more like a roommate than a
wife, that you are both just co-existing in the same house but
not really growing as a couple.

When this happens, it is clear that there is a need to invest
some time in strengthening your relationship. Time should be
taken daily to talk, give loving touches, sharing feelings and
dreams and cut back on activities that take away time from your
marriage.

Developing emotional intimacy builds strong bonds that are not
easily torn down. It’s important to nourish an emotional
intimacy that will keep the marriage strong so that you don’t
have to worry about your husband being tempted by an affair.

Have Fun In Your Marriage and Remember That Variety Really Is
The Spice of Life!

If the fun and spontaneity of your marriage has been replaced
with resignation and complacency, then it’s time to spice up
your marriage.

As you spice up your marriage with activities that are of
interest to you and your husband, it keeps you involved with
each other’s lives. As you have fun together, you both will be
happier and there is a natural sex appeal about a happy person.

Whether it’s renting a jet ski, going camping and hiking, or
attending a play. Find things that are fun to do, spice up your
life and give you opportunities to spend time together.

Don’t Make Rash Decisions

If your worst fear is realized and your husband really is having
an affair, don’t make any rash decisions until you have
considered all of the facts.

You may have said if your spouse ever had an affair you’d get a
divorce. However, every situation is different and there is no
cookie cutter answer for every case. Thus, it’s important to
look very carefully at the details of your situation and any
extenuating circumstances.

You are in a better position to make a decision when you
consider all the facts. Many people faced with a similar
situation discover that their love for their husband creates a
desire within them to save their marriage rather than throw it
to the wolves.

Those who have struggled through rebuilding their marriage, and
fixing the things that allowed for an affair find a marriage
relationship that comes out so much the better than it had ever
been before.

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